After spending New Year’s Eve playing cards and games with my fiance and one of our good friends while our dogs played and hid from the fireworks, I spent a chunk of New Year’s Day in the ER with some odd symptoms. Muscle tremors, shooting pains, and random numbness throughout my left arm/elbow/hand. Turns out I’m fighting a harder RA flare than I knew, and this was just another manifestation of that. They fitted me with a sling to keep the arm elevated and told me to go home, take my pain meds and…REST.
Anyone else hate being told to rest all the time? No? Just me?
Anywho, this morning I was getting caught up on blogging and showing some of my blogger peeps some love, and I found this on Tamara’s site. And I thought, “Yes, I need to do this!” So here you go, loves, my 2014 in review, and some hopes for 2015.
What did you do in 2014 that you’d never done before?
Got our adorable doggy, the first pet Scotty and I’ve had together.
I started Remicade infusions for RA treatment. I’ve never had any sort of infusion before.
Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I did, and I will! For 2015, I want to focus on living better. I want to spread kindness and joy and do my part to make the world a better place.
Did anyone close to you give birth?
A few of my dear friends blessed us with babies this year. Rebecca, Crys, and Fallah all had adorable bundles of joy ❤
Did anyone close to you die?
Not anyone I know personally, but the loss of Robin Williams touched me deeply. I grew up with him, and it breaks my heart to know the world is missing his genius.
What countries did you visit?
Sadly, none. We’re hoping to visit Canada later this year.
What would you like to have in 2015 that you lacked in 2014?
A blender. A yard for our doggy to run and play.
What date from 2014 will remain etched upon your memory?
I don’t have a specific date, just little snippets throughout the year that make me smile. The look of joy on my fiance’s face as he played his music again. My son and fiance exploring the space museum together.
My doggy running through the tall grass at the dog park. Game nights with my fiance. Nights at Denny’s with Kristen and Seth. Civil War on the big screen. Evenings with Cathy.
What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Following my dream of being a writer. It involved more than just sharing my words here with you. I put myself out there more and faced my fear of rejection. I hope to continue this in 2015 and maybe finally finish a book.
What was your biggest failure?
This question really stumped me. I think as long as you continue to learn from your mistakes, nothing is a failure. As for me, I’m still learning.
Did you suffer illness or injury?
Still rocking the battle against my autoimmune disorders. I was also diagnosed with TMJ, and am awaiting an appointment with a oral maxi-facial specialist to determine our treatment plan. I also had a bout with chemical poisoning. Joy.
What was the best thing you bought?
I honestly can’t think of anything right now. Does the cheesy popcorn I’m calling my lunch count?
Whose behavior merited celebration?
My fiance, who continues to be by side and hold my hand as I walk this path.
Where did most of your money go?
What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Time with my son.
Planning our wedding. Making a new friend. A visit from Kristen and Seth.
What song will always remind you of 2014?
Foo Fighters Something From Nothing
Compared to this time last year, are you:
Happier or sadder? Happier
Thinner or fatter? Thinner, though I still have a ways to go.
Richer or poorer? About the same, I guess. Scotty did get a raise, but those bills keep coming and they’ve just increased our rent, so…
What do you wish you’d done more of?
Living. Chasing dreams. Crafting. Learning new things.
What do you wish you’d done less of?
Hurting. Being stressed and anxious.
Did you fall in love in 2013?
I fall in love with my fiance every day. I fell in love with our doggy when we first met him and knew he needed to come live with us.
How many one-night stands?
None. Or 365 with the same man, however you want to look at it.
Who were your best friends?
All of my friends are best. Kristen and Seth. Nolan and Courtney. All my girls, the sisters of my heart. Kerry. Cathy ❤
What thing did you do that was meaningful to others?
I continued to share my stories. The crew helped me launch the Spoons 4 Spoonies website so we can continue to offer support to those battling chronic illness.
What were your favorite TV programs?
Once Upon A Time. Just about anything true crime related. Sonic Highways.
Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
I try not to hate anyone, it’s so bad for your own well-being. But there are a few people I wouldn’t mind never seeing or hearing about again.
What was the best book you read in 2014?
Written In My Own Heart’s Blood by Diana Gabaldon, the latest book in the Outlander series.
What was your greatest musical discovery?
Sonic Highways by the Foo Fighters. I loved getting to watch how each song came together on their HBO series, and then feel in love with their songs. I’ve always been a FF fan, but this made me love them more and in a new way.
What did you want and get?
A lap desk. A mellow and laid back Thanksgiving holiday. A new phone with a better camera (Thank goodness for Verizon’s free phone offer!). Time with my sisters.
What did you want but did NOT get?
Time ALONE with my sisters. A money tree. A new body.
What was your favorite film of this year?
Uh… I can’t remember seeing many movies this year… Sad story.
What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I turned 32 and spent the day with my son and my fiance and some of our dear friends. We went bowling, which was something I didn’t think I could do with my RA hands, but I did it and it was awesome! We also had pizza from my favorite place, and cupcakes, which makes everything awesome.
What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
What kept you sane?
My writing. Therapy. My fiance. Our dog. All of our lovely friends who popped in to keep me trucking along ❤
Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Sam Heughan, the guy who plays Jamie Fraser in the TV version of Outlander.
Colin O’Donoghue aka Captain Hook
What political issue stirred you the most?
I was in an uproar over a few things, others just broke my heart. I’ll say this: I stand for equality for all, and for a safer world for our children.
Who did you miss?
My grandmother. My brother. Misty. My daughter. I always miss my son when he’s not here with us. All of my friends who live near and far, whom I never get to see often enough.
Who was the best new person you met this year?
Kerry! She’s become a dear friend and a lovely support system. Also, with whom else can I sit and reminisce about the 80s?
Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2014.
Sometimes you have to just let things go. Accept that you need to put yourself first, and set boundaries, even if the things you have to let go are people you love. You can’t help others at the detriment of yourself.
Quote that sums up your year:
Thank you all for following along this past year, and for joining me for this little walk down memory lane. Here’s wishing 2015 is full of all the best for all of us! Happy New Year!